The Gradual Slide into Isolation It’s Saturday morning at the local playground. Emma (pseudonym) hoped this would be a simple outing; a chance for her three-year-old, Liam, to play, and for herself to connect with other parents. But within minutes, Liam begins...
Coaching
Stop Saying I Need to Be More Consistent
https://www.stacyfinch.com/blog/stop-saying-i-need-to-be-more-consistent/Why Neurodivergent Families Need a Different Approach to Discipline “You just need to be more consistent.” If you’re a neurodivergent parent, or parenting a neurodivergent child, you’ve probably heard this advice more times than you can count. It’s the go-to mantra of...
Parenting While Neurodivergent: Balancing Self-Care and Childcare
Parenting is hard. Parenting while neurodivergent, especially when raising neurodivergent children, adds an entirely new level of complexity. Many autistic or ADHD parents feel constant pressure to “keep up,” even when their own executive functioning, sensory...
How to Find a Neurodiversity-Affirming Therapist
Finding a therapist can be hard. If you are autistic or neurodivergent (ND), it can feel even harder. You might wonder if your therapist will understand you, support you, or judge you. That’s why it’s so important to find someone who is neurodiversity-affirming. What...
Feeling Foggy? What You Need to Know About Brain Fog
Have you ever felt like your brain just isn’t working the way it used to? Maybe you forget things more often, can’t focus, or feel like your thoughts are moving through molasses. If so, you might be experiencing something called brain fog. What Is Brain Fog? Brain fog...
Mastering Executive Functioning—Tips for a More Organized Life
Executive functioning skills help us manage time, stay organized, and follow through on tasks. If you often feel overwhelmed, forget deadlines, or struggle with starting projects, strengthening your executive function can make daily life easier. 1. Start with Time...
ADHD Strategies That Actually Work
ADHD isn’t about laziness or lack of effort—it’s a difference in how the brain processes information and manages tasks. Whether you struggle with focus, organization, or time management, there are strategies that can help. 1. Externalize Your To-Do List Your brain...
Adlerian Therapy
Adlerian Therapy: A Holistic and Positive Approach to Mental Health Many years ago, in an undergraduate theories of counseling class, I encountered the work of Alfred Adler. I’m not sure if that was my first introduction to Adler or if I had heard of him before, but...
Understanding Executive Functioning: A Guide to Building Essential Life Skills
Executive functioning refers to the set of mental skills that help individuals manage time, focus attention, plan and organize, and regulate behavior. These cognitive processes are essential for navigating daily life, academic success, and personal relationships....
Managing Child Custody with Autism and PDA: Navigating Challenges
Child custody for an autistic child with a Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) profile can present unique challenges, especially around routines, masking, and emotional regulation. The Impact of PDA on Routines and Transitions Children with PDA can appear to thrive on...








