How nervous system freeze hijacks executive function. TL;DR The Gap: Task paralysis in neurodivergent adults is routinely misdiagnosed as laziness, poor time management, or a lack of discipline. The Mechanism: What looks like hesitation from the outside is often...
Counseling
Frequently Asked Questions About My Private Practice
Choosing a counsellor, consultant, or other professional to work with can involve a lot of questions. This can be especially true if you are neurodivergent, have had difficult experiences with therapy in the past, or are not quite sure what kind of support you need....
Two Homes, One Nervous System: What Divorce Looks Like When Your Child Has PDA
Why nearly-equal custody time doesn’t mean nearly-equal impact on a PDA child’s nervous system TL;DR What’s happening: Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is a profile within the autism spectrum where everyday demands can trigger a genuine fight, flight, or freeze...
The Hidden Cost of Coping at Work: When Performance Problems Aren’t Performance Problems
Why fatigue, disengagement, and inconsistent output at work are often the visible edge of an invisible cost. TL;DR The reframe: When performance slips, most organizations ask “how do we fix this employee?” A more accurate question is how much of that employee’s energy...
Sensory Differences in Autistic Adults
TL;DR The scale: Sensory processing differences show up in the vast majority of autistic adults, and for many, they intensify with age rather than fading. The gap: Almost all sensory processing research and intervention was built for autistic children. Adults,...
Why So Many Autistic Adults Are Diagnosed Late and Misdiagnosed First
TL;DR One in four autistic adults, and one in three autistic women, have been given at least one psychiatric diagnosis before autism that they now consider a misdiagnosis. Personality disorders, anxiety, depression, and chronic fatigue or burnout-related conditions...
What Neurodiversity in the Workplace Actually Means (And Why Most Organizations are Missing It)
Part 1 of 3: Neurodiversity at Work TL;DR The scale: Up to 17-22% of the workforce is neurodivergent, yet unemployment and underemployment among this group remain persistently high. The gap: Neurodiversity is increasingly recognized as a dimension of workplace...
Neuroaffirming Therapy Is the Therapy Gap Few Are Talking About
TL;DR The problem: Most therapy for autistic and neurodivergent people was designed by and for neurotypical brains, and research now shows it frequently causes harm rather than healing. The shift: Neuroaffirming therapy starts from a fundamentally different premise,...
When Traditional Workplaces Don’t Fit: Why Neurodivergent Professionals Are Choosing Entrepreneurship
And how to know if self-employment might be your path forward TL;DR The Big Idea: Many neurodivergent professionals struggle in traditional workplaces not because they lack ability, but because conventional work structures don’t accommodate how their brains work....
Why “How Do You Feel?” is Such a Hard Question: A Guide to Alexithymia
TL;DR The Quick Version What it is: Alexithymia is a way of processing the world where identifying and describing internal emotions feels difficult or impossible. Why it happens: For many autistic and ADHD people, the brain focuses more on external facts or physical...










