The Gradual Slide into Isolation It’s Saturday morning at the local playground. Emma (pseudonym) hoped this would be a simple outing; a chance for her three-year-old, Liam, to play, and for herself to connect with other parents. But within minutes, Liam begins...
ADHD
Stop Saying I Need to Be More Consistent
https://www.stacyfinch.com/blog/stop-saying-i-need-to-be-more-consistent/Why Neurodivergent Families Need a Different Approach to Discipline “You just need to be more consistent.” If you’re a neurodivergent parent, or parenting a neurodivergent child, you’ve probably heard this advice more times than you can count. It’s the go-to mantra of...
Am I Too Much? Or Just Enough?
There’s a moment many neurodivergent people experience that hits like a wave, often in childhood but reinforced across years: “You’re too much.” Too loud. Too sensitive. Too emotional. Too intense. Too difficult. Too different. The echoes of these messages can live in...
When Self-Regulation Feels Impossible
“I know what I’m supposed to do, but in the moment, I just can’t” If you’ve ever said this, you’re not alone. As a neurodivergent parent, you’ve probably read about self-regulation strategies, maybe even tried them; breathing exercises, mindfulness apps, grounding...
Parenting While Neurodivergent: Balancing Self-Care and Childcare
Parenting is hard. Parenting while neurodivergent, especially when raising neurodivergent children, adds an entirely new level of complexity. Many autistic or ADHD parents feel constant pressure to “keep up,” even when their own executive functioning, sensory...
How to Find a Neurodiversity-Affirming Therapist
Finding a therapist can be hard. If you are autistic or neurodivergent (ND), it can feel even harder. You might wonder if your therapist will understand you, support you, or judge you. That’s why it’s so important to find someone who is neurodiversity-affirming. What...
Mastering Executive Functioning—Tips for a More Organized Life
Executive functioning skills help us manage time, stay organized, and follow through on tasks. If you often feel overwhelmed, forget deadlines, or struggle with starting projects, strengthening your executive function can make daily life easier. 1. Start with Time...
ADHD Strategies That Actually Work
ADHD isn’t about laziness or lack of effort—it’s a difference in how the brain processes information and manages tasks. Whether you struggle with focus, organization, or time management, there are strategies that can help. 1. Externalize Your To-Do List Your brain...
A Mindful Approach to the New Year: Setting Neuroaffirming and Achievable Intentions
The new year often brings a rush of resolutions, grand plans, and “new year, new me” mantras. While some people find joy and motivation in setting goals at this time, others—myself included—may feel overwhelmed by the pressure to transform overnight. If you're not a...
A Winter Holiday Guide: Thoughtful Support for Neurodivergent Families
Created by Stacy @ stacyfinch.com & Adrianne @ discoverautism.ca The holidays are full of potential for connection, joy, and, let’s face it, some chaos. For families with neurodivergent children, the season can bring extra challenges. Bright lights, noisy...








